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Question

How do girls ”look” at a guys penis.
How and when do you look at a guy’s penis? I mean, once you are introduced to a new guy, do you take a look at his penis as part of checking him out?? or only when you feel a guy is sexy…or maybe when there is a romantic interest?? or do you always look at all guys all the time??

And how do you do it without guys even noticing it?? …how do girls stare without getting caught??

And after you look at the penis, how does that influence how you judge the guy?? What difference does it make?

Answers

Wicked:

I’m a woman ok, now we have the demographics set……

I think it’s disgusting when men wear really tight and revealing clothes. I used to be a member of a running club. There was one guy, ok he might have been well endowed, but did he really have to wear tight spandex shorts. A lot of guys wear something looser and longer down their legs.

Maybe some women want that on display and in their face before they decide to speak with you and more. But quite frankly, it’s enough of a turn off for me that you will no longer exist as far as I am concerned.

Jezebel:

When I first tried online dating sites, I quickly found out just how genital oriented guys are. I discovered that they really, really love their penises. In fact, many are more than willing to show it, they are down right eager! Many of them like to show it and they like to talk about it. That makes me pretty uncomfortable and makes me squirm. I quickly learned to avoid web cams.

Honestly? The last thing I think about when I meet a guy is his penis. I’m actually looking at everything else. When I look at a hot guy I’m looking at muscle, body build, face, expressions, personality, life style. I might start wondering about his more when we kiss and I feel his hardness against me.

I don’t care to see it at all or talk about it until I’ve developed a fondness for the guy. Penises are penises. It’s what they’re attached to that interest me. I’m interested in looking at it when I’ve decided to have sex with him. Then when I finally do see it, I stare at it long and hard.

I’ve already judged the guy before seeing his penis. Once I see and experience the penis I’ll notice the size. But the affection or lack of it that I feel for the guy extends to the penis.

Blndegrl:

The only time I look is if I’m fooling around with a guy and want to see if he is reacting to what we’re doing. Unless he has an erection, there isn’t anything to see when he wears jeans. If he has an erection I’ll look, but it is still hard to tell much through jeans because guys become adept at hiding their erections.

Honestly, penis size does not factor into my thinking until the relationship gets physical. Prior to that there are other characteristics I am looking for.

Clueless7900:

Umm, I can’t look at it unless the guy is unclothed. It’s not the 80s where guys wore tight pants all the time.

Jezebel:

Oh I know. But still when guys do that it’s even more ridiculous than when women do it because its far less likely to turn women on than the other way around. You can call it a double standard, I call it “it is what it is”. It all comes down to how we are hardwired.

Even guys that don’t dress provocatively still often make the mistake that women think like they do. Although there are women who are interested right off the bat by a guy’s penis, they are not typical. The challenge for guys is to get women interested in them in order to get us interested in their penises.

Showmeheaven:

I would NEVER check out a man’s penis. Men probably like to think women do but I’m pretty sure the majority of women don’t.

I would notice eyes, smile, mouth, big shoulders/arms, hands, butt in a nice pair of jeans waaaaay before checking out a penis! (ugh)

Trailblazer:

Girls don’t check out the penis, it’s the entire bulge we’re looking at. It’s still hard to do though, so I just usually go right for the butt.

Lookinforluv:

I totally agree with you. Most guys have jeans on and there is no way you can see through them to get any idea of what it looks like. I never think about it when I meet a guy. I’m with Jezebel on what she said, there are so many other things I’m looking at and if we get to the point of an intimate relationship I’ll check it out!!

Okdk:

I don’t look, if it stands out I’ll look away, honestly the last thing on my mind what’s the size of a random guy’s penis…same for the men I mix with… I don’t know and I don’t care..watching ballet dancers and similar feels awkward…I only looked when I get physical with a man or bathing/dressing up a child

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